My Dear Elder Bro ❤

This guy deserves a better baby bro than me. He told me, advised me, pleaded to me everytime to focus on my studies and stay away from social media; to stay away from girls.

He repeatedly said that everything and everyone will come if you work hard. Money. Name. Fame. Girls.
Focus on your life, goals, studies. Plan for a good career.

He warned me that the world of social/virtual media is a fake world and never make me happy.

Yet I fell in love with my Goddess.

I broke his heart. I hurt him. I failed him.

We both are 180 degrees different from each other. Complete opposites.
And now, he’s not talking to me because of the roads our different beliefs have lead us.

He’s on the top in his life and career and I’m just an average one.
He is special. He is the best. He is everything.
He is my elder brother.

He’s 92% holder.

EC Topper from VGEC.
GATE 94% The highest of our region.
He was an Engineering Professor,
then after Software Engineer at COGNIZANT (US GIANT MNC),
THEN AFTER AMDOCS (ANOTHER GIANT MNC), THEN AFTER HCL BANGALORE,
Now he’s working at BRITISH BARCLAY’S INTERNATIONAL INVESTMENT BANK.
Few days ago he cleared his First telephonic interview round of GOOGLE, SINGAPORE.

I love him dearly.

3rd Anniversary 😍❤😘👻😛🙃

Dear All,

I am very happy to inform all of you that I am completing 3 years my third anniversary, with almost 300 blog posts with 1500+ followers on this most awesome platform.

I started writing blogs as a kind of therapy. To help me express my love, feelings, emotions, pain, tears, agony, and sorrow that was making me dangerously depressed.

My story with wordpress is one of respectful reciprocation, warm human amity, fruitful cultural and intellectual exchange, endearing buoyancy, passionate literary embellishment and endowment, let alone friendship furtherance and beefing up!

Thank you to all of you, dear friends, who have contributed to, and been part of my journey.
I am very proud of Some of my blogs. Others didn’t work out as well as I had imagined. Such is life..

I don’t have all answers to life. But I hope I have gained some wisdom from my tiny little life experiences, which if nothing else, are varied and somewhat unique.

Thank you very very much each and every one of you for reading, appearing my posts.
Thank you for your immense love, blessings and support.

I shall appreciate you all always.You all have made my writing journey exciting, thrilling and memorable for me.

Happy birthday to my dear elder brother 😍😘😊

“Your Brother will never say he loves you, But he loves you more than anyone else in the World”

After the divine relationship of mother,
Next important relation is of Brotherhood.
There is eternal presence of friendship.
Sunshine shadow rain joys or sorrow.
There is always presence of an Elder Brother.
Relation of blood or family.
The bonds of heart, mind, soul is friendship.
The difference of age and thoughts.
Does not hinder relation of us.
Beyond the horizon of the world.
All the wealth of world can not buy,
The relationship of Brotherhood.
My sibling is my lifeline,
Feelings of emotions and relations as lifelines,
No substitute for his commendable support and love,
We share and celebrate our birthdays, our achievements with same enthusiasm and passion to lit the hope of candle,
We’ve not grown up in our childhood fights, remain united and close knitted in layers and flairs of love and blessings,
Hugs a d prayers for well being is our motto of life to fly high and mighty!

Wishing you a very very very happy birthday dear elder bro.
Always Stay Safe, Secure and Happy 😊

Wishing you An abundance of goodness in life, Richness of soul, peace in the Mind, Happiness in your heart, joy & laughter on your face & may it all reflect in the sparkle of your eyes.

May my lord krishna illuminate your life with countless blessings of happiness, love and good fortune.

Respect Women

It starts from homes, schools, parks, religious places, pop culture itself. It feeds a certain mentality that women are fair game no matter what and men will be men, boys will be boys. Women tolerate a lot, men take it for granted that’s how it’s always meant to be like
Things are so bad that lot of things we find threatening, offensive, abusive, demeaning, harassment, assault are not even considered so by many men and section of women. They think ‘yeh toh chalta hi rehta hai’, so what? It’s not a big deal as per them. Hence it continues.
And if it makes headlines, gets reported, results in debate or action, they start blaming women at once, talk BS like it takes two hands to clap or declare daughters shouldn’t be born, women must not be hired or given admission.But they won’t hold men accountable or change at all
If you have even lawyers using analogies like ‘mithaai sab ke saamne khuli rakh di, tijori khuli, meat in front of dogs’ to justify harassment, molestation, assault, rape and dehumanise women then what to say?
Finally, if a boy has seen his own mother, grandmother, aunts, sisters being disrespected, abused, mocked, belittled, put down by male relatives in family, he will internalise the same values and never respect any woman himself. It begins at home itself
Those drunk, abusive uncles at parties, family functions are tolerated or laughed off. Why? Do you call these creeps family? Would you tolerate if women behaved like this? Why not call out goonish behavior within homes, family functions itself?
Women internalise self hate, self blame and are asked to keep away, keep quiet. While men, of course, can do anything they like, including cheap behavior of drunk uncles at weddings, family functions. You the relatives everyone avoids for sake of own safety.
Putting women in ghunghat, purdah, locking them at homes, or committing female foeticide or not hiring, admitting females anywhere is no solution. You know even boys are sexually abused by predatory men. When will men be asked to introspect own behavior?
Also stop asking make survivors of abuse to keep quiet or shaming them as not being man enough. ‘You got sodomised? Hahaha! You’re not man enough’ – that’s a pathetic excuse to blame victims and have predatory men get away again.
Will add on religious preachers too, who keep bashing women for dress, make up, career, late marriage, cooking, problems with in laws but never say a word on men who misbehave, abuse, are into domestic violence, harassment, drugs, alcohol, sexual misconduct etc

Women’s Dignity

The real problem arises from the prejudice rife about women in our society. A man’s thinking and outlook towards the opposite gender has a huge influence on his actions. So, when a child observes that the women in the family or around him are regarded as a soft, submissive and docile entity, denied of autonomy, who must impart their duties of household chores without questioning, he presumes it to be the most natural way to deal with women in the society. This brings about a notion that women are subordinates to men and hence, don’t deserve to be treated equally. That’s how the roots of a patriarchal society are further strengthened – a society that normalizes violence against women, trivializes rapes and indulges in victim-blaming.
Secondly, women are most often identified by their physical attributes – disregarding their individuality and capabilities – which further dehumanizes and objectifies them. The media and popular culture play an important role in the formulation of a society’s perception or at least a subconscious attitude. But, unfortunately, objectification of women in popular entertainment is a truth we can’t deny – movies, music, advertisements and reality shows portray women in poor light, showcasing them as mere objects of pleasure and sexual gratification. The way women are generally portrayed in media exposes sheer cultural profiling – they are portrayed as objects to be ogled, catering to the “male gaze”. Slang terms such as item, slut, and maal are used to dehumanize them.
We all sit, laugh and enjoy when the protagonist of a movie stalks, flirts and teases a girl and finally ends up wooing her. This follows up with the derogatory portrayal of a woman in item sequences surrounded by a bunch of men. The perception that such movies create, “that women are sex objects and are willing to abide by the man’s fantasies” is long-lasting and gets ingrained in our minds. A woman’s consent is no longer considered important, and it makes it easier to harm them since they are perceived as mere objects.
Unarguably, such an outlook on women results in a social structure that tries to dominate, oppress and exploit them. Our responsibility lies here – to stand against all kinds of objectification, and strive towards building a society that is based on equality, freedom, and justice.

Women Safety

No democracy is a democracy when half its population lives in fear. Yet men are surprised when they hear this from women. Their common reaction is: “You must be mistaken.” The paradox is that women have protected men and their families by keeping quiet. This is honourable behaviour, a part of our “honour society”. But National Crime Records Bureau statistics for 2012 to 2016 show that approximately 40% of female reported rape victims were minors and 95% knew the rapist. The rapists belonged to the “circle of trust” of extended family and friends. Young girls have nowhere to go.What rape statistics really reflect is a vicious cultural agreement that women have little value. Which means in turn that girls must be trained to act as if they do not exist, to minimise their presence to survive, to serve men and not inconvenience them. This sounds archaic in this day and age, but it is true in India and to a greater or lesser degree across many cultures, irrespective of wealth or education.Nobody would ever know the fear and the sacrifice of choices made by a girl and a woman. Every woman lives in fear of being sexually harassed, they always have this fear of which time will it be that such an incident would happen. Life has its own problems but sexual harassment is an added exhaustion. It kills the spirit of millions, woman try to look as if nothing happened but the stares and the touch and body languages buries them alive. Sexual harassment isn’t normal, it needs psychological help. The day people will start thinking as not a normal part of life that will be the day such nasty things will start ending.

Harassment and Molestation

Every single day single women, young girls, mothers and women from all walks of life are being assaulted, molested, and violated. The streets, public transport, public spaces in particular have become the territory of the hunters. While the ones already hunted down weep in silence or in disdain, the rest fight their way to a basic life with dignity.
There is an unspoken war on the streets. Young school and college going girls use books to shield themselves, other women wear full-covered attire to protect their bodies, and others avoid the mere glance of the roving gaze.
We don’t need to look at statistics to confront the horrid truth. News stories of women from all over Country and world being raped, beaten, killed are flashed across us day after day – and we all are aware of it. The fatal Nirbhaya gang-rape saw an outpouring on the streets of Delhi – protests decrying the fragile status of women in India. Candle light marches, editorials examining the patriarchal and sexist traditions of our country, an awakening on social media – even conversations on streets revolve around the night they cannot forget: the night that took Nirbhaya.
This is the time we own up to ourselves. We stand by each other. Tall and proud. Brave and unfazed. This is the time we own up to India. No more Harassment. We want what we deserve – for us and for our daughters – a safer India for women

Every Single Day we see women to be subjected to sexual cruelty & brutality. Statistics say a woman raped every 20 minutes in our country. But that’s not the whole story.
Most rapes are never reported because of fear of social stigma & perpetrators go scot free. In a country where a law maker says “Ladke se Galati ho jati hai” its obvious that the victims are often viewed with contempt n hate.
A country where a juvenile can go scot free, given aids to rehabilitate, victim can be as hapless as anything. We need stringent laws. No one, even a juvenile should be acquitted if a crime is proven. A juvenile who can dare to commit such heinous crime should be tried as an adult. There should be no expectations.
As for girls, u should learn to fight for our safety and security. Don’t crawl in shame, fight, face the world n be brave. Its they who have sinned, not you. Be a Goddess Kalika or Mahishasurmardini. U have it in yourself to prove that u can fight. Fight for justice and yourself.
Dear ladies, be a woman of substance, one with a spine. And dear men, be proud of the ladies in your life, they are shakti.
May the kawach of Durga be with all women but if ever there comes a storm raging to compromise with my honour and dignity, I hope the same kawach makes me bold enough to not look back and step ahead into Rakt Bhasm and become one with Mahadev. Woman of 21st Century!

(Written by my sis)

Stop Violence Against Women

Why heinous, horrible, ferocious crimes like rape and gangrapes and all kind of violence against women happens in india everyday everywhere everytime.

The bigger gap between the rich and poor, the more the crimes. The rich people brought more money into society. But it’s not reaching the poor. So they try and take it. The results is more strife in society. It’s normal. It’s happening all over the world.

The explosion of uneducated, uncultured, uncivilized, uncouth youth in india. They have no sex education, but get free porn online which affects their adolescent brains. They don’t know how to interpret it.

They objectify women and wish they could have that in their lives. If they don’t get it, they take it, with no regard for the consequences. After all they have nothing to lose.

I’m telling you from my personal experience.

Here in my home stare gujarat crime rate is high now a days

Rapes are happening everyday

Of course I will blame outsiders

This is the bitter truth.

People are coming here for labour work, other job, study, for better life, migrated from their own state, own place like UP, BIHAR, JHARKHAND, BENGAL, CHATTISGARH, ORISSA, RAJASTHAN, NEPAL MOST OF NORTH INDIANS.

Twinkle Sharma Story 😭

Around 20 days ago, A 3 year old Twinkle Sharma brutally murdered in Aligarh, Uttar Prades.

Twinkle was Shilpa and her husband Banwari Lal Sharma’s only daughter, born five years into marriage, after several medical complications. Her death comes just eight months after Shilpa suffered a miscarriage and lost a fetus she’d carried for nine months.
The couple last saw their daughter alive on 30 May, a Thursday, when she left the house around 8.30 am to play with her friends. Forty-eight hours later, her decomposed, maggot-infested body was dragged out of a garbage dump near her house by stray dogs, who then ravaged the body further.
Her eyes were popping out, right arm had been cut off, left leg, ribs, nose fractured, and the corpse nibbled by insects and rodents, in some parts down to her bone.
Failing to get that image out of her head, Shilpa rubbed her eyes vigorously and shook her head every five minutes. “The stench of her body is still fresh in my nose. That image of her lying in a garbage heap, in that condition, haunts me,” she said, “I do not think I can ever get it out of my head.”

Postmortem report of girl is horrible. Now, 3 year old girl sexually abused & raped in Barabanki. Accused Saleem is arrested. Wake up Yogi Govt., This is law & order of Uttar Pradesh. Shameful.

Rape

WE WATCH,BODIES WRITHING AND MOANING,HAIR SPILLING BACK
AS THE MOUTHS AND TOUNGES MEET WITH A SMACK
CLUMSY GROPING AND PULLING AT THE SAREE STRAP
VIDEO SHARE AND SEND,”HEY CHECK OUT THAT RACK”
FORGET AUNTY’S ADVENTURE AND BHABHI’S SEX APPEAL.
WE GOT IT BETTER HERE,THIS SHIT IS TOTALLY REAL.
GIRLFRIENDS AND BRIDES UP AND DOWN THEY GO.
AVENGED AND REVENGED,FOR A BRUISED EGO.
THE SLUTS YOU WERE DATING,POP UP!
HOT GIRLS IN YOUR AREA ARE WAITING.
NO ACTORS NO SETS, MASALA MAKES US WET.
REAL PEOPLE CAUGHT IN ACTION,CAUSING IMMEDIATE REACTION.
WE DON’T STOP AND THINK,MOUTH OPEN WE DON’T BLINK.
VOYEURISM AND PLEASURE,PRESENT IN EQUAL MEASURE
WE’RE MERE SPECTATORS WHY WORRY,GIMME THE REVENGE PORN CURRY
OH WE WANT THE CRYING GIRLS,DRAGGED OUT BY THEIR CURLS
AND CALL IT SEX TAPE.FACEBOOK LIVE HAS THE LATEST,GANG RAPE
WHERE DO WE CROSS IN A LINE,THE BOUNDARY’S SO FINE,
DEMAND OR SUPPLY,WE JUST WATCH HER CRY.
HER BOSS SAW IT TOO? SO? LOSERS CAN GO WATCH POGO.
WINNERS DON’T GIVE A DAMN,TO YOUR CONSENT,DEAR MA’AM.
WHAT POWER IT BEGETS,THE SLUT DESERVES WHAT SHE GETS
NOW CALL HER BITCH AND WHORE,SLAP HER AROUND SOME MORE
GENRES TAKING OVER YOUR PASSION,LEAVING YOUR PARTNER TO QUESTION
AS THE REEL SPINS AND CAMERA BLINKS,SHE TRUSTS YOU ENOUGH,OR JUST HAD A FEW DRINKS
SHARE IT ON WHATSAPP,SHE NEVER KNEW IT’S A TRAP
“BABY JUST ONE PICTURE PLEASE? COME ON, DON’T BE A TEASE”
BROWN SKIN LIKE MINE,FELL FOR SOME CHEESY LINE.
AND NOW SHE’S YOURS TO SEE,REVENGE IS PART OF THE FEEL
TOMORROW’S MMS SCANDAL,THIS BITCH IS TOO HOT TO HANDLE
WE KNOW ALL ABOUT THIS GENRE,NO ONE BUT US TO BLAME
BUYING INTO HER SHAME,IT’S JUST PORN MAN,DON’T BE LAME.